tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987053430475322837.post8165130831409830358..comments2023-09-21T07:21:20.706-07:00Comments on The Perkster - Ramblings of a hungry fat girl: AdoptionEhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14611472632465144188noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987053430475322837.post-11682275116054289132012-06-13T21:44:52.145-07:002012-06-13T21:44:52.145-07:00We plan to never hide anything from the Little Dud...We plan to never hide anything from the Little Dude, as he gets older we will tell him about what happened (age appropriate of course). I never plan to say anything bad about BM, just that she loved him, but was unable to be the mother he needed. Her mother and stepdad are still very much involved with him so we don't plan to cut off contact from that family. I just don't want her to have any legal right to him if god forbid something happened to Stuart!Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14611472632465144188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987053430475322837.post-87290660070677175242012-06-13T17:19:06.319-07:002012-06-13T17:19:06.319-07:00I seriously wish you a ton of luck. The only thing...I seriously wish you a ton of luck. The only thing I think though is that even if it all goes through and she legally has no more rights... that Little Dude should know about her. And that he understands it's not because she didn't love him, but because she wasn't in a good place to be a good mom. And I'd like to think that she'd still want to know he turned out OK? I mean, as a mom myself, even if I was really fucked up and knew I couldn't do it, I'd still want to see pictures and just know that I made the right decision and that my kid(s) are doing OK.Sara Strandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02641499434694637445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987053430475322837.post-54703203671153591672012-06-13T14:21:12.356-07:002012-06-13T14:21:12.356-07:00Good luck!Good luck!Linhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14180987728892745670noreply@blogger.com